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If calling the set "singular they" on the annual survey doesn't add clarity and help people find their pronoun set, I will stop using that name, and switch to providing the meaning instead.

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It's a sign of progress, since singular they for nonbinary people is so much more commonly accepted that every nonbinary person *doesn't* need to know the name "singular they" and what exactly the name means and how it is used differently from third-person regular/plural they.

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It's a useful name, to refer to a pronoun set with a slightly different use case and, usually, spelling to match. And for some reason I thought that my experience from a decade ago, where understanding of this name was universal, would obviously still be relevant. (It is not.)

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Hand on heart, it honestly did not occur to me that a significant number of people might not know that's what "singular they" means. "Singular they" is the name that lexicographers and other people who study language collectively call "they/them when referring to one person."

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At that time, the "singular they isn't grammatically correct" and "singular they can't refer to a specific known person" arguments were very prevalent, and every trans person I encountered understood that singular they is defined as "they/them used to refer to one person."

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When I first came out (about 10 years ago) and started learning about pronouns, I researched "singular they" pronouns a little bit - in part because lots of people were arguing that singular they wasn't a legit pronoun, so I wanted to understand more.

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I've been working to get to the bottom of what other people mean and understand by particular grammatical terms, my own preconceptions and misconceptions, and which parts of it fit within the limited scope of the Gender Census.

My brain is very tired now. :D

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Over the past few days I've been doing a lot of thinking and talking about they/them pronouns, singular they vs. plural they, and how best to present the they/them checkbox option on the annual survey.

(Following this blog post, mainly: gendercensus.tumblr.com/post/6)

do you have a Dysphoria Hoodie™?

And, one day left on these two polls for people whose pronouns are they/them!

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13 hours left on this poll for anyone whose pronouns are they/them!

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#UK #petition: Make #nonbinary a legally recognised gender identity in the UK

petition.parliament.uk/petitio

"Have non binary be included as an option under the GRP (Gender Recognition Panel)/ GRC (Gender Recognition Certificate)"

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, your votes in the first poll in this thread would be pretty helpful! :)

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People whose pronouns are "singular they", which reflexive do you prefer people to use when talking about you?

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People whose pronouns are "plural they", which reflexive do you prefer people to use when talking about you?

Complete the sentence!

"My pronouns are..."

For the purposes of this poll:

a) Singular they, referring to only 1 person: they are themSELF

b) Singular they, referring to only 1 person: they are themSELVES

c) Plural they, referring to 2+ people: they are themSELVES

Bumping today's new poll for the 5-hours-later crowd! 🚀

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All boosts are very much appreciated - the results could affect the next annual Gender Census survey, and the previous version of this poll had 120 votes, which was really helpful! :)

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