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Rant-Cancelling, Second Chances, My Girlfriend Pyretta and Abuse 

Let's discuss my girlfriend, because frankly long thought about this and yeah she deserves, no she is entitled to another chance from all of you who will give her one.

So many of you label her serial abuser, but let me spell this out for you. She literally could be worse, you know what she daily goes through. Her parents practice DARVO she is literally isolated from people. Her parents practice manipulation, deception, think Mother Gothel from Rapunzel and yes that only touches on it. They withhold information from her, including Birth Certificate, National Insurance Number.

They isolate her from anyone not them, like they have now decided that I am abusive, because she got more 'uppity' after spending holiday with me. They have done it with her exes.

They basically coerced her when she ran away and was caught at 18 to sign away powers of the attorney. They threaten to kick her out if she even stands up to them, or section her.

If this is sounding like a twisted version of Cinderella and Rapunzel you are fucking right. Now, let's discuss when she had a fucking breakdown as well as having a stroke because of T-Blockers, she does not remember what she does, but you still hold her to it. Acting like 'Leopards can't change their spots' which is gaslighty as fuck.

In short, she deserves forgiveness and all your receipts mean nothing, because I frankly know her better than any of you.

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Explaining the whole Switch Thing and BDSM Tag 

Oh and for those who ask I put Lil Ginger Kitten for reference I am part Submissive I am a switch in reality, so I have two personalities. The Sexy Tigeress and Lil Ginger Kitten basically nothing to do with DDLG or anything else. In reality while a sexual thing it is more a Furry personality thing and actually plan to have them both drawn.

I am a Rape Victim not mention child rape victim of course would not support any of that. So please stop reporting me.

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Intro Post 

My new complete INTRO

I am combining some pinned posts into this, since character limit higher.

I am a Scottish Transgender aged 28, Autistic and living in Glasgow, I am on HRT and I am a massive slut.

I am often NSFW and definitely love flirting and flaunting myself. Although I identify as Transbian I am actually bi just most men scare me.

I am also a massive nerd/geek, love Media in general and love discussions. I also am friendly and love meeting new people and discussing random stuff related to geek culture or pop culture. I am also interested in politics and am progressive and left-wing.

Oh I also discuss my Transition extensively on here and boost my posts because I love different opinions. I am constantly becoming the girl I truly am politics wise and identity wise.

I am polyamorous and currently in a relationship with my amazing @Pyretta aka Ember. And almost on four months HRT

Due to my Autism is people get angry at me without explaining or being detailed I end up in anxiety/anxious state.

I want to understand I want to not hurt anyone, so if I ever do then more likely it was a mistake and not malicious. I ask before getting angry you try make me understand. I am open minded and know I have a lot to learn.

If I accidentally misgender someone or anyone on here. It is never intentional and I promise it is merely a faux pas. If I do just DM me to delete or edit it and I shall rectify it ASAP.

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(Boosts welcome)

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Explaining the whole Switch Thing and BDSM Tag 

Oh and for those who ask I put Lil Ginger Kitten for reference I am part Submissive I am a switch in reality, so I have two personalities. The Sexy Tigeress and Lil Ginger Kitten basically nothing to do with DDLG or anything else. In reality while a sexual thing it is more a Furry personality thing and actually plan to have them both drawn.

I am a Rape Victim not mention child rape victim of course would not support any of that. So please stop reporting me.

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Transition - Voice Questions 

Is it true it becomes easier to speak the correct way when on HRT? Like Voice is something I am massively dysphoric about this, like massively so.

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Okay I am going to have to say this. Due to my Autism is people get angry at me without explaining or being detailed I end up in anxiety/anxious state.

I want to understand I want to not hurt anyone, so if I ever do then more likely it was a mistake and not malicious. I ask before getting angry you try make me understand. I am open minded and know I have a lot to learn.

Discussion: Cancel Culture and Why it is Essential 

Let us discuss Cancel Culture and while it has problems it serves a purpose. The idea is for left-wing people to police our ideology and avoid genuine bad actors - bad actors meaning people who claim to be left-wing but are rapists, serial harassers, racist or more.

The idea is not perfect since many leftists also forget many of us support the idea of rehabilitation of people. Of course, there is the point we can't hope to rehabilitate anyone. The problem comes in when we end up with the situation that Twitter and Social Media in general lead too. Victims are not allowed to speak up often, but there is often a reason for this. Lack of spoons or such makes handling bad actors tricky.

At least left-wing actually tries to vet bad actors in our ideology, whereas Right-Wing will only address it when it is convenient. People may argue it is extreme, but the choice is to do nothing and be hypocrites and never educate or improve people or address it now and actually improve the ideology.

If anyone has a problem with vetting your ideology in this day and age, they clearly not seen corrupting spread of Fascism and how quickly it can become part of people's lives via social media and youtube. The pipeline does exist if we did nothing the Overton Window continues to shift and sooner or later even the most determined person will begin to slip.

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Discussion: Cancel Culture and Why it is Essential 

I almost became neo nazi before I came out, they exploit your mental health and make you believe the world is against you. I wish I could say it was not easy, but it is horrifyingly easy.

Until the Pipeline is shutdown, vetting our ideology is the only option we got.

Now I will confess sometimes cancel culture is bad, but nothing is perfect and the alternative far worse.

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Discussion: Cancel Culture and Why it is Essential 

Let us discuss Cancel Culture and while it has problems it serves a purpose. The idea is for left-wing people to police our ideology and avoid genuine bad actors - bad actors meaning people who claim to be left-wing but are rapists, serial harassers, racist or more.

The idea is not perfect since many leftists also forget many of us support the idea of rehabilitation of people. Of course, there is the point we can't hope to rehabilitate anyone. The problem comes in when we end up with the situation that Twitter and Social Media in general lead too. Victims are not allowed to speak up often, but there is often a reason for this. Lack of spoons or such makes handling bad actors tricky.

At least left-wing actually tries to vet bad actors in our ideology, whereas Right-Wing will only address it when it is convenient. People may argue it is extreme, but the choice is to do nothing and be hypocrites and never educate or improve people or address it now and actually improve the ideology.

If anyone has a problem with vetting your ideology in this day and age, they clearly not seen corrupting spread of Fascism and how quickly it can become part of people's lives via social media and youtube. The pipeline does exist if we did nothing the Overton Window continues to shift and sooner or later even the most determined person will begin to slip.

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Hello Fediverse, and and especially PeerTube's admins.

After finding Neo-Nazi content on the instance I was using, I realized that far-right groups have created PeerTube instances or use unmoderated instances to share their videos.

This content federates on other instances.

I've created this account to list somewhere theses instances, making it easier to isolate them and their content and protect us.

The list : cryptpad.fr/pad/#/2/pad/view/V

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You can help by reporting instances to this account.

You can follow this account to get update about this list (theses will be under a content warning).

( Inspired by @isolategab )

Is it praxis to eat a leader/leaders of your country if they are in fact a terrible leader?

Is it praxis to eat a leader/leaders of your country if they are in fact a terrible leader?

LEWD - DAY 1 WITH GIRLFRIEND LIVING WITH ME! 

Guess what having your girl do your HRT Gel is FUCKING HEAVENLY. LIKE HORNT ON MAIN.

Transition - Massive Change for the Positive (Girlfriend related, house related, living standards related) 

So after my Dad said he started calling me 'My Child' because he was trying everything came out, all I kept in my head forever. I literally told my 'rents everything and boy was I relieved too, because turns out a lot of good came from it. Despite the fact there will be much upheaval. But I guess I better explain, Pyretta my girlfriend is moving in me to be free of her abusive family for good that is part one. We will be living together two girls so awesome.

My 'rents now know I am on HRT - and unlike others they are making an effort. The upheaval will come into another factor, we're selling this house and likely moving to West End of Glasgow, likely best for both of us. There are some things don't like, I have to get rid of my swords, but honestly I will be living with someone else, I am so excite. Also my family have taken it seriously about Ember's abuse and will get her help she needs and make sure her family can't get her back because fuck those monsters. Like that phone call last night was such a massive relief like a fucking mortar off my chest. Although they seem to fully understand I am Trans, if not understand it.

In short big changes coming for this gay girl, massive changes. I am finally living with another intimately. I AM SO DAMN EXCITE, MUST PREPARE HOUSE!

Transition - MY DAD AGAIN --- 

UPDATE TIME!

sighs that is all I needed to wake up too - fucking hell --- and why the hell did I apologize about my breakdown yesterday... sighs
Like when I said I felt I was wrapping myself in knots he said that was all me --- then when he passed to my Mum I explained had breakdown and was sorry - and she admitted she did not like the name Vand and today's suggestion from him Vern. Then when she said it said it sounded stupid he got angry and I hung up phone as I was not going to deal with familial strife.
Is it a common trans experience we feel need to apologize for this? Part of what made me apologize was Mum sent another message why I phoned:

im sorry to hear that. At the end of the day i do not care what name you use,as long as its a name you and dad can agree on AND face book. I do not want all this strife. i wish we were not all falling out over this. you have to realize that your life changing decision has put a strain on some family members especially Dad. He wants to meet you half way and is prepared to compromise. perhaps you could choose a gender nuetral name that maybe includes the letters Q and V. for some reason He can not accept Quinn even thogh I have known guys with that name. for my birthday, I would like to see you and dad agreeing on the facebook name and being on speaking terms. its a dream.

hrt 

I'll be honest, doctor, I really just want these pills to turn me into a giant dino girl

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