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Adults with ADHD feel guilty asking for certain accommodations or resources.

Adults with ADHD feel guilty for needing to take medicine to function "normally".

Adults with ADHD feel shame for not functioning the same way they believe "everyone else" does.

Adults with ADHD feel shame for needing to find creative new ways to work with their brain.

It can be debilitating, and therapists should recognise this, and work together with such adults to identify and overcome these feelings.

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Therapy for people with ADHD should include a strong focus on dealing with guilt and shame.

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Danny Phantom AU where everything is the same except his parents' machine didn't actually work, it just fell on him and that's why he's a ghost

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There are a lot of knock-off fidget cubes. Huh. Once this quarantine is over, perhaps I'll buy a second one + a keychain attachment, so I can have an outdoor fidget cube and an indoor fidget cube.

It's not too bad... I prefer the buttons and the switch anyway.

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The knob of my fidget cube is becoming squeaky. Shame.

1. Man, those little kids can dance lol
2. ALL THESE YEARS I DIDN'T REALISE THAT WAS KATY PERRY IN THE VIDEO
youtube.com/watch?v=eiiU-Fky18

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“Apple granted the FBI access to the iCloud account of a protester accused of setting police cars on fire in #Seattle this summer, according to court documents.”

businessinsider.com/apple-fbi-

#Privacy

I'm done puttering about the flat, doing miscellaneous tasks here and there. I had brunch, took an early shower, and did my T. Now it's time for relax for an hour or two.

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Getting registered to vote is not a commitment to take any further action at all, but it is a way to give yourself options, should you become inspired to cast a ballot.

vote.org/

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Whenever I come close to typing a response to an angry person or giving unsolicited advice, I hear Tabitha Brown's voice in my head saying: "And that's your business."

Then I delete the message and move on with my day because that's my business.

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I was a little overwhelmed by the software choices a few months ago. Once you read too many reviews from learners and native speakers, you start to feel they're all really bad or they're all really good, and you can't choose.

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I want to return to studying (Brazilian) Portuguese soon. I have a lovely grammar textbook I want to dig into.

Periodically, I remember the 'mentions' tab of the notification column exists.

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