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pals, what tools should i be using to check accessibility / correct labeling etc for a web page / react app?

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A while back someone shared (#OnHere I think) a hand-drawn little flow chart of "if I feel this in my body, it's probably this emotion" that they'd made to help with alexithymia (difficulty identifying one's own emotions). I want to find it again because I want to do something similar, and it wasn't smart enough to bookmark it at the time. I've tried searching but no luck and anyway we know that's a weak point of the fediverse.

Can anyone help me find it again please?

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If you appreciate queer girls wearing mesh bodysuits, then you should check out my game where you get to save the world as one, GET IN THE CAR, LOSER!, my lesbian road trip RPG that’s currently 50% off on Steam! store.steampowered.com/app/938

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in celebration of the instance being back up, here have an extended portion of the track I've been working on lately

I'm super proud of this honestly - although the vocal sample still feels cheeky AF. Its definitely setting a high bar for the next record honestly

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mutual aid req, nd & traumatized trans girl and her spouse behind on rent, pls boost 

Hey folks, my partner is in recovery from bottom surgery but has no income remaining and nothing in savings and can't work. Best part? Benifits haven't decided if she is going to get funding - even tho she was supposed to have it a month and a half ago.

Literally anything would help them, but they are seeking $550

PayPal.me/NatalieRubyGraves

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It's called non-binary because we took one look at the binary and we said 'non'

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what's a travesti? isn't that the same as crossdresser? 

travesti is a Latina transfeminine culture. it is a depreciative term of medicalization, reclaimed as an identity. historically travestis have often presented themselves as a feminine third gender, "neither woman nor man but a travesti godess". with the advent of the gringo trans movement, most now consider themselves to be trans women as well as travestis, which is my case. to paraphrase travesti academic Ana Flor, the travesti identity is not simply a gender identity but a political one; to identify as travesti is to recognise how this particular, localised, highly marginalised street culture shaped our gender expression and self-understanding.

travesti culture has a long history of DIY hormones and street surgeries too, though that's not what makes it an identity. many travestis are, like me, very positive and very sexual about their genitals, and this has been used as "the difference between travestis and trans women" (I think the porn industry still does that, for example). sometimes I see travestis who use the term as "non-genitally-dysphoric trans woman", but most don't, and a lot of travestis opt for a vaginoplasty as soon as they can afford it and who cares what are you a cop?

there's always been a degree of fluidity between male feminine gay boys, crossdressing fetishists, and trans women (in the case of the USA queer history, cf. Sylvia Rivera and the history of the 'T' in S.T.A.R.). in the case of travestis, this fluidity is embraced rather than rigidly legislated; travesti singer Linn da Quebrada identifies as "neither woman nor man, but a fem 'trava'", then as "woman, woman, woman, woman, woman" in the space of 1 minute in a single song—then as "Black favela faggot" in a different song. (and she's lesbian.) despite this relaxed attitude with self-definitions, travesti identity isn't reducible to androsexual effeminacy or the erotic thrill of breaking gender taboos; it's just that almost all of us have been there, and many retain a fondness for it. we don't come from a culture that care so much about policing the boundaries of words (for Flor, the undefinedness of "travesti" is the point).

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Out of curiosity, I have a question, does one of these apply to you?

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Hey folks, I hate to do this but.

My disabled, traumatized, trans, and neurodiverse girlfriend just lost welfare/benifits, and is being asked to pay back the total $500CAD she's been given so far.

She really really needs help with this. She could loose her home over this. I'm posting this around with her consent, in a hopes that i can get as much help as possible.

Yall have saved my life before, maybe we could save hers together?

PayPal: natalierubygraves@gmail.com
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Hey mastonerds what do you recommend in terms of website hosting? I'm thinking about making a small hobby site mainly to broaden my knowledge. I am thinking about trying to use something like LAMP as so far I only have experience with windows based web development

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straightness isn't just the socially sanctioned relationship between a man and a woman but the SYSTEM that elevates it

don't come after the individuals who just want happy relationships

come after the system that says that there's only one good way to have them

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slamming an estrogen needle into my thigh mid-combat like it's a stimpak

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begpost, bills, education, limited alt text 

hi, a partner of mine owes £545 for college and they are threatening legal proceedings, if you have anything to spare, please consider helping out

paypal.me/KitKatsys

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i think egypt should get the queen's corpse to show off in their museums or eat it if they prefer

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So.

I'm going to be moving.

Asap.

Back in Indiana.

A good IRL friend of mine is working to get me a job with her, with a few others offering to help if that job doesn't pull through and, to be honest, I lived nearly a decade in Indiana on my own and loved it.

However, I am anxious about moving expenses and such.

My plan is to be able to move before the end of the month.

If you could help in any way, please please do.

Https://paypal.me/emmilner
ko-fi.com/magicalmilly

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